Everyone should become a soul-winner. A mother’s heart can only exist when you have physically given birth to children. You will give your life for your children. Equally in the spiritual, you cannot have a mother’s heart if you have not converted someone to the Will of the Father. Soul winners should have that kind of love in the heart.
Let us transfer the eros or phileo love to the Agape kind of love, because we are all children of the Father. We will all meet each other in Heaven. That’s why Jesus Christ said, “Love one another.” He did not say love your relative in the flesh only.
“Love one another.” Who is this one another? Paul, Peter, all the apostles … they had different mothers and fathers in the physical but the Father called them to be one and made them a spiritual family that should love each other as He loved them.